How to teach your cat to do something good 202
There are several tricks to training a cat. Here's some overall basics to start with. Read this site so you can understand normal cat behavior. It will help you to diagnose why your cat acts the way it does. Discover the reason why your cat acts as it does. Try to provide for its mental, emotional and physical needs. Then try the same methods you use with little children---praise, patience, and more praise. Praise is demonstrated when your voice is uplifting, "Good cat!!" It's accompanied by lots of enthusiastic touching under the chin or around the ears, hugging, making little kissing sounds and other appreciative acts. When the cat feels good about itself, you'll see a change in its behavior to good. Remember when you were a little child, there were times when you tested the limits of behavior to see what you could get away with? In fact, I'll guess there are times when you still do it. Cats will test the limits, too. You'll need to be firm with them and do some retraining. Patience will be needed. Remember the last time you tried to change your own behavior---stop smoking, eating less sweets, responding in a more thoughtful way to your spouse? It took time. And regressing back to the negative behavior only meant another round of patience was needed. Another thing you'll need is confidence that you really can teach your cat to do something good. That's why I'm offering these ideas to help you find the way that will really work. Walking on a leash This is about the best thing you can teach your cat. It will take lots of patience, repetition and praise. It'll be worth all the time it takes. I'll tell you how I did it. First I had my six cats wearing collars with evidence of their rabies shot and their ID hanging from them. After they thought they were were beautiful cats with colorful collars and pretty sounding jingly bells, I bought an 8- shaped harness. It's the most fail-proof harness and also very easy to put on and adjust for different size cats. I left it on the floor for a few days. Then I put it on the cat I had determined was the leader of the group, Pinky. I let him wear it for ten or fifteen seconds. I removed it and, lo and behold, I had the other cats lined up for their turn to wear it. After each cat had one chance, I put it back on Pinky and let him wear it for a couple of minutes. He strutted around and was very proud of himself. When the other cats sensed this, they all wanted another chance. So then each cat had it on for a longer period of time. The next time, I attached a lightweight leash to the harness and let it drag behind each cat as they took another turn. The leash I use is a thin braided plastic lanyard with a strong but light clasp. Despite its overall light weight, a couple of my cats didn't like having something follow them as they walked. For those who looked anxious, I took the leash off until they got used to watching the other cats and learning from them. With several cats, they certainly can learn from each other. And, after some time, all my cats got used to the leash. I kept an eye on them while they had the leash on because it sometimes got caught on a furniture leg. I loosened it where it was caught, so the cat wouldn't feel any frustration. The next time, I picked up the loose end of the leash and followed the cat wherever in the house it wanted to go. Finally the big day arrived. I took my alpha cat outdoors on the harness and leash. He moved slowly as he smelled nearly everything in his path. After just a few minutes, I picked him up and brought him back inside. After I removed the leash, the other cats gathered around him and what ensued was a lengthy silent discussion and sniff session between him and the others. I knew some of the cats were ready for this outdoor adventure and took them out, one at a time. I took out just the five cats that were ready. The next step, several weeks later, was for me to try to have some control over where we walked. All the previous time, I was the one who had "heeled." Now, when the cat was headed in the wrong direction I spoke to him and said, "this way" and gave a tiny tug and release. My tug was not a pull, but just a way to get the cat's attention, and no more than that. I stood still and continued giving a verbal request and tiny tug and release until the cat paid attention and returned to my side. Then I gave praise and lots of it. If you try to pull your cat on its leash, you'll notice the cat digs in with its claws and will not be moved. Don't fight over this. If the cat is in danger, instead of pulling, bend down and pick it up. Otherwise, avoid pulling and remain patient. It was over a year before I felt successful in having a fun walk with my cats. So don't get discouraged and remain patient. It's worth the time you put into it. Now I can go out for a walk with one cat at a time in places where we won't meet other cats or dogs. The cat walks on my left side on a short leash. I let it roll in the dirt for a while. I prompt it by saying "this way" and a tiny tug and release when it smells a spot for too long. When we're ready to turn around and go home, I give it praise and I repeat that the praise at the door when we've reached home. It's good exercise and a time for bonding for both of us. And it gives me an excuse to sing to the cat. I repeat my song, "Let's go walking, walking, walking, let's go walking all around," and try to time the words to each step we take. We're a funny pair. And we're healthier for the walk. Coming when called You may face an emergency when you wish you could get your cat to come immediately. But even if that time never comes, it's important to train your cat to come when you call. Use his training only for positive reasons. For example, if you want to give your cat medicine, don't call it to come. Instead, go to your cat. And don't call the cat when it's eating or using the litter box. Get a small cat treat or toy. Call your cat by name and add, "come here." Pat your side. The cat will hear the sound of the patting and see your moving hand. It'll hear its name and, if you're lucky, it'll come. Now's the time to praise and show your cat the reason why you called it. Maybe it's a small treat or a toy for the two of you to play with. The next time you call your cat, do the same thing. Practice this a few times a day. It won't take long before your cat learns to come whether you have a treat or not. But praise your cat each time it responds to you, even if it's just a pat on its head and eye contact. Sitting on demand This is useful when your cat is bugging you to death or bothering your company. I call it "settling down. " First of all your cat needs to be wearing its collar or harness. Now you need to do three things at the same time. Put your fingers under the back of your cat's collar and gently lift it up a bit. At the same time, use your arm to gently push down on the cat's back. Speak to your cat softly, saying "settle down." Don't use your cat's name, as you want it to respond by coming to you whenever you call its name. Keep your arm in place and give your cat praise. Scratch behind her ears with your other hand. Repeat this training during the next few days or weeks, however long it takes, and soon your cat will understand your words. It will settle down without having you touch it. Staying in place There are numerous times when you'll want and need your cat to remain in the same place. I teach my cats to obey this because I don't want them to run outside when someone opens the door. Or if one of my cats gets caught in something and needs a little help from me instead of getting caught worse. Here's how to get started. Grab a hold of your cat's collar with one hand and say, "stay," or whatever word you choose. Don't use its name. At the same time, sharply move your other hand so the palm faces the cat and points down to the ground. Have your hand about a foot away from the cat's face. Repeat your command a few times while keeping your hands in the same place. Use a firm voice but no louder than usual. Repeat this training for several days, weeks or months, until you feel confident with it. You never know when it may save your cat's life. |


